Life isn't about finding yourself.

... listen to this song if you find the time. I love it and it's been on endless repeat for hours today :)

Peter Cincotti - Goodbye Philadelphia
It's a youtube link.

Edit: I just saw this at jessm78' s journal:


As always half of that fits and the other half is saying the exact opposite: how can I be hard-hearted and caring at the same time ? *scratches head in wonder*